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“You don’t have to control your thoughts. You just have to stop letting them control you.”
- Dan Millman
Overthinking kills confidence faster than failure ever could!Every athlete faces pressure - but overthinking turns pressure into paralysis. It’s the silent opponent in your head that makes you hesitate when you should react, tighten up when you should be loose, and question what you already know how to do. The problem isn’t the situation - it’s your mind making it more complicated than it really is. The Hidden Cost of Overthinking in SportHarvard researchers found that people spend nearly 47% of their waking hours thinking about something other than what they’re doing. That means almost half your mental energy can get trapped in “what if's” instead of “what’s next.” In sport, that’s the difference between a missed pass and a game-winner.
Overthinking kills rhythm, confidence, and flow - the very state where you perform your best. When you’re present, your mind and body work as one. You react instead of hesitate. Presence isn’t the absence of thought - it’s the mastery of attention. What’s Actually Going OnOverthinking doesn’t mean you’re weak - it means you care. It’s what happens when your brain is trying too hard to be remember everything, trying to be perfect or avoid mistakes. But presence is what you actually need! Here’s what often hides underneath overthinking in athletes:
Once you identify the problem, you can manage it. Use the “Name It to Tame It” tool — label what you’re feeling (“I’m tense,” “I’m nervous”) to lower the emotional volume and return to the present moment.
Beat Overthinking by Playing with ClarityWhen the game speeds up, your mind can easily get ahead of the play. Overthinking makes you hesitate, tighten up, and lose flow - but clarity brings you back to the present. Playing with clarity means trusting your preparation, staying connected to the present moment, and freeing your mind to simply compete. The best athletes don’t think less, they think clearer. Here are five tools to help you do that ⬇️ 1️⃣ Breathe and Reset When your thoughts start racing, anchor yourself with one slow breath in through your nose and one out through your mouth. That single breath interrupts the noise and brings you back to the present moment. 2️⃣ Use Performance Cues Keep 1-2 short, automatic phrases that direct your focus:
Cues act like mental switches - they replace cluttered thinking with clear action. 3️⃣ Move Your Body, Don’t Freeze Your Mind Overthinking locks you up. Movement unlocks you. Skate hard, sprint back, communicate - action clears tension faster than analysis ever will. 4️⃣ Zoom In When your brain drifts to mistakes or the scoreboard, narrow your focus to one controllable: your next pass, breath, or body position. Champions win by dominating the next moment, not the last one. 5️⃣ Reflect After, Not During Reflection is powerful - but only after the whistle. After practice or games, ask yourself:
Then let it go. Learn, reset, move on. The “Three Rs” For GamedayEven the best athletes lose focus, it’s part of the game. What separates elite performers is their ability to reset quickly and get back to the moment. That’s where the Three R’s come in. The Three R’s are your in-game reset system, a fast, simple way to clear your head, refocus your attention, and move forward with confidence. When the pressure hits, run this quick reset in your head: Recognize - The thought - “I’m overthinking.” It takes five seconds, but it can change the entire game. Final ThoughtWhy play the game in your head when you can play it on the field of play? You don’t need to be perfect - you need to be Present. Breathe. Trust your prep. Focus on the next play. When your mind gets quiet, your instincts take over - and that’s when your best game shows up.
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